My Oh My how times change… First I fell deeply in love, then he freaked out and ruined the honeymoon period. Then in reaction to all his negativity and comments about how I was “too much” and I needed to calm down I started to pull back and smile less. Then I started to cater to him and forget about myself and my happiness but still love him with all my heart and soul. Now I am tired of being unhappy and crying. I am tired of not smiling or having fun. I am tired of no intimacy and the wide space between us.
I did something I never thought I would do again. I purchased a bathrobe to wear around the house to and from the shower. I feel odd being naked in the house and around him now. I feel like I need to hide myself since we aren’t kissing or having any physical ness. It just seems wrong to be naked anymore.
I used to hear “I love you” all the time and now I rarely do. We used to kiss all the time and enjoy it immensely. Now I get an obligatory on the mouth peck before work (sometimes) and maybe if I am lucky it comes with a hug), usually it’s a kiss on the forehead and a noogie. He used to call me by my nickname he gave me, now I am just the GF or girlfriend.
I feel like we went from lovers to friends to roommates. I don’t know if we are still friends but I know that we aren’t lovers anymore. I don’t know if we can ever be again.