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November 28, 2017

Missing Ginger for the Holidays

Filed under: Emotional Stuffs, Photo Journal — Tags: , , , , , — slimpickins @ 3:51 pm

I miss my sweet baby doll. My little Ginger Monkey is missed so much everyday but more so during the holidays. I am especially stressed this season and I miss her calming cuddles and pets and aura.

So far this holiday season, a lot has happened:

  • I moved on 10/31
  • My ex-landlord is charging me ridiculous fees
  • I may have to take my ex-landlord to small claims court
  • Medical problems have increased for me
  • Medical problems for mom have increased
  • Furnace went out at the house

I am missing my Ginger so much. Had I know last Christmas that she was in so much pain, I would have let her go sooner (I say that but letting you go away was the hardest thing I have done in my life).



You were my soulmate; my true love. You did everything for me. You had the greatest joy when you were with me and I had the greatest joy when I was with you.

My favorite thing was Ginger cuddles. Looking into those loving eyes while we cuddled and snuggled. Ginger hugs, Ginger smiles, Ginger pets for more attention, and of course Ginger smells.

Everything reminds me of Ginger. Daisy misses her big sister so much too.

Ginger you are missed so much. You were/are a bright spot in this world.




Holiday Rewind part 2

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October 5, 2017

Ghost of Howl-o-ween Past

Filed under: Photo Journal — slimpickins @ 9:31 am

Some older photographs of Howl-o-ween funness

July 25, 2017

Me MeM

Filed under: Photo Journal — slimpickins @ 10:53 am


Me again

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July 13, 2017


Filed under: General Life Updates, General Stuff, Photo Journal — slimpickins @ 3:02 pm

She is fitting in just fine so far…

Photos with new baby Zoey

Filed under: Photo Journal — slimpickins @ 2:58 pm

welcome baby Zoey.. to the family…

June 21, 2017

Life Changes

Filed under: General Life Updates — slimpickins @ 11:24 am

My life is about to change dramatically and I don’t know if I cam ready for it but it is necessary. I hope that I will keep my friends during this change, but I am prepared for the loss of some of them. Sometimes we need to just buck up and do things for ourselves and our own well being. I keep putting mine on the backburner for someone else.. but now I will take a step forward into the new world that awaits me.

June 14, 2017

Universe is yelling at me

Filed under: General Life Updates — slimpickins @ 3:55 pm

That awkward moment when the universe starts yelling at you to make a change. You can deny it as long as you want to but the universe will always get it’s way. You meet people at the certain times for certain reasons.

The universe is trying to help me help myself.. and I am going to give in and listen. I will welcome in the happiness and changes that are coming forth shortly. Thank you for yelling at me Universe, sometimes I am hard of hearing.

May 30, 2017

To Marry or not to Marry…

Filed under: Emotional Stuffs — slimpickins @ 7:13 am

One question you should never ask yourself after 6 months to a year of dating is “If they were to ask me to marry them what would I say?” After say 6 months to a year you should know if you want to spend the rest of your live with that person or not. From my experience; if you aren’t sure the answer is “NO”.

It is difficult when you love someone but you know you do not want to marry them. I have and do struggle with this a lot. I am getting to the point to finally just walk away.

I hope to keep them as my friend but you never know how they will react to your insight that you are no longer in love with them or that you don’t see yourself marrying them. I can’t imagine it going over well, but I have been able to stay friends with those that I have dated in the past so who knows.

I am not a horrible person because I don’t want to marry you. I am not a horrible person because I want to find that one person I am meant to be with and marry them. I thought that was you, but I know now that is not you.

I am not a horrible person… Being true to myself is not being mean or horrible.

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